Half-Black History Month Continues...
I was over the (half) moon to see a well-rounded feature in the Times recently about the decision by many young bi- and multi-racial Americans to define themselves as such.
Many young adults of mixed backgrounds are rejecting the color lines that have defined Americans for generations in favor of a much more fluid sense of identity... “It depends on the day, and it depends on the options.” They are also using the strength in their growing numbers to affirm roots that were once portrayed as tragic or pitiable. “I think it’s really important to acknowledge who you are and everything that makes you that. If someone tries to call me black I say, ‘yes — and white.’ People have the right not to acknowledge everything, but don’t do it because society tells you that you can’t.”
I feel incredibly strongly about this -- unlike Halle Berry (I know, you thought we were exactly the same, but it's really just exterior), I do not buy into the one-drop rule that one black ancestor means I must define myself and my experience as African-American. That's about as genuine as Michelle Obama identifying as white since she has white ancestors; her life experience has probably been lived as a black woman regardless of her genetic history.
One of my clients right now is a transman who has written a rock memoir (yes, that's my term, go marketing!) about his life and transition from female to male. It's been a huge eye-opener for me. I can't imagine being born into the wrong body, an identity that I couldn't embrace... and yet, I identify heavily with his story, as throughout my life I have been, and always will be, confronted by people and situations that want to tell me how I "should" identify, which box I should check. Identity, ideally, should be something that is self-determined, and the rest of the world should accept it and carry on. It feels insincere for me to say I'm black because that ignores a huge part of what has shaped me, but on the other side of the oreo, saying I'm white certainly doesn't tell the whole story either. So it is fine with me if Halle identifies as black, but I hope as time goes on, she lets her (quarter-black) daughter define herself.
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Friday, February 18, 2011
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Be Still My Style Heart
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fashion,
michelle obama
Nice pictorial on How to Get Michelle Obama's Style for Less on ivillage.com. Looks like I'll have to re-subscribe to the Spiegel catalogue. What is this, 1994?!
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
LiveBlogging the President's Health Care Speech
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budget,
economy,
fashion,
health care,
iraq,
john mccain,
michelle obama,
nancy pelosi,
ted kennedy
Tune in now!
Gasp! CNN has been replaced on channel 10 with FX! Actually, I support that decision - on to MSNBC.
Michelle looking FABULOUS in vintage-y salmon-colored retro suit. Que Kennedy!
Crap! I suck - I missed the Mayoral Debate
on ABC at 7pm - did anyone catch it? (Don't worry, my appearance isn't until 2028.)
Am I wrong to assume that the procession of lawmakers coming into the room would be FAR less diverse were we still under the Republican regime? So nice to see representation that actually looks like America today.
I still get chills when they announce "The President of the United States" and Barack Obama walks out!
And the speech...
Good opener prioritizing economic concerns, positing that his administration has "pulled this economy back from the brink."
"I am not the first president to take up this cause, but I am determined to be the last." HO!!
Nancy Pelosi just looks so happy. Maybe because she and Hil are matching in their adorable red power suits? Yikes, I hope they don't stand next to Michelle, clashorama.
Thank you, Barack, for explaining that
those of us who are self-employed often can't afford to purchase health care on our own.
There are over 30 million citizens who cannot get coverage. 14,000+ lose their insurance every day. "It can happen to anyone."
WHAT. A woman couldn't get her double mastectomy because she didn't claim a case of acne when signing up for her insurance! Disgusting.
Prez now spelling out for the town hall idiots that the insured are already paying for the uninsured, and just how much - $1,000 per year for emergency & charitable care.
"These are the facts, and nobody disputes them. We know we must reform the system, the question is how."
Health care represents one-sixth of our economy!
Prez is recommending fixing/reforming what we have now vs building over from scratch.
"The time for games has past. Now is the time for action."
Summary of the features of Obama's proposed plan, paraphrased from speech text:
Obama just gave props to McCain and McCain is smiling like crazy and everyone gave him a standing ovation - it's a total lovefest in there!
"Some of people's concerns have grown out of bogus claims spread by those whose only agenda is to kill reform at any cost. The best example is the claim, made not just by radio and cable talk show hosts, but prominent politicians, that we plan to set up panels of bureaucrats with the power to kill off senior citizens. Such a charge would be laughable if it weren't so cynical and irresponsible. It is a lie, plain and simple."
I've never heard such disrespect from the floor during a President's speech. I have my theories. You?
Great analogy likening private insurers + public options to private/public college system.
What is the paper the people in the back row are holding up?
"I will not back down on the basic principle that if Americans can't find affordable coverage, we will provide you with a choice. And I will make sure that no government bureaucrat or insurance company bureaucrat gets between you and the care that you need."
This one's for my mom: "I will not sign a plan that adds one dime to our deficits, now or in the future. Period. ...Reducing the waste and inefficiency in Medicare and Medicaid will pay for most of this plan. Much of the rest would be paid for with revenues from the very same drug and insurance companies that stand to benefit from tens of millions of new customers."
MAJOR DISS! "Part of the reason I faced a trillion dollar deficit when I walked in the door of the White House is because too many initiatives over the last decade were not paid for – from the Iraq War to tax breaks for the wealthy." True that, Obama, let's overturn those crap decisions while we're at this!
Seniors: "Not a dollar of the Medicare trust fund will go to pay for this plan."
Creating a panel of experts to identify waste. Love it!
Bipartisan leap! Re-assessing medical malpractice laws, a big Republican push.
"Add it all up, and the plan I'm proposing will cost around $900 billion over ten years – less than we have spent on the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, and less than the tax cuts for the wealthiest few Americans that Congress passed at the beginning of the previous administration."
"I will not waste time with those who have made the calculation that it's better politics to kill this plan than improve it. I will not stand by while the special interests use the same old tactics to keep things exactly the way they are. If you misrepresent what's in the plan, we will call you out. And I will not accept the status quo as a solution. Not this time. Not now." Don't mess with the O!
WHOA - powerhouse closer: letter to Obama from Ted Kennedy, requested to be delivered upon his death, calling health care "that great unfinished business of our society... it concerns more than material things.... What we face is above all a moral issue; at stake are not just the details of policy, but fundamental principles of social justice and the character of our country."
Obama is saying that caring for others is not partisan. I disagree based on evidence, but it's big of him to say so.
"When facts and reason are thrown overboard and only timidity passes for wisdom, and we can no longer even engage in a civil conversation with each other over the things that truly matter – that at that point we don't merely lose our capacity to solve big challenges. We lose something essential about ourselves."
Yep, Obama's a bigger man than I am. Still working on a bipartisan solution. Still believing that most of us care about others who are sick or in need. This is one of those rare times when I hope I'm wrong.
Complete transcript.
Gasp! CNN has been replaced on channel 10 with FX! Actually, I support that decision - on to MSNBC.
Michelle looking FABULOUS in vintage-y salmon-colored retro suit. Que Kennedy!
Crap! I suck - I missed the Mayoral Debate
on ABC at 7pm - did anyone catch it? (Don't worry, my appearance isn't until 2028.)Am I wrong to assume that the procession of lawmakers coming into the room would be FAR less diverse were we still under the Republican regime? So nice to see representation that actually looks like America today.
I still get chills when they announce "The President of the United States" and Barack Obama walks out!
And the speech...
Good opener prioritizing economic concerns, positing that his administration has "pulled this economy back from the brink."
"I am not the first president to take up this cause, but I am determined to be the last." HO!!
Nancy Pelosi just looks so happy. Maybe because she and Hil are matching in their adorable red power suits? Yikes, I hope they don't stand next to Michelle, clashorama.
Thank you, Barack, for explaining that
those of us who are self-employed often can't afford to purchase health care on our own.There are over 30 million citizens who cannot get coverage. 14,000+ lose their insurance every day. "It can happen to anyone."
WHAT. A woman couldn't get her double mastectomy because she didn't claim a case of acne when signing up for her insurance! Disgusting.
Prez now spelling out for the town hall idiots that the insured are already paying for the uninsured, and just how much - $1,000 per year for emergency & charitable care.
"These are the facts, and nobody disputes them. We know we must reform the system, the question is how."
Health care represents one-sixth of our economy!
Prez is recommending fixing/reforming what we have now vs building over from scratch.
"The time for games has past. Now is the time for action."
Summary of the features of Obama's proposed plan, paraphrased from speech text:
- If you already have health insurance through your job, Medicare, Medicaid, or the VA, nothing in this plan will require you or your employer to change the coverage or the doctor you have.
- It will be against the law for insurance companies to deny you coverage because of a pre-existing condition.
- it will be against the law for insurance companies to drop your coverage when you get sick or water it down when you need it most.
- They will no longer be able to place some arbitrary cap on the amount of coverage you can receive in a given year or a lifetime.
- We will place a limit on how much you can be charged for out-of-pocket expenses, because in the United States of America, no one should go broke because they get sick.
- insurance companies will be required to cover, with no extra charge, routine checkups and preventive care, like mammograms and colonoscopies – because there's no reason we shouldn't be catching diseases like breast cancer and colon cancer before they get worse.
- if you're one of the tens of millions of Americans who don't currently have health insurance, the second part of this plan will finally offer you quality, affordable choices... This is how large companies and government employees get affordable insurance. It's how everyone in this Congress gets affordable insurance. And it's time to give every American the same opportunity that we've given ourselves.
- If you lose your job or change your job, you will be able to get coverage.
- If you strike out on your own and start a small business, you will be able to get coverage.
- For those individuals and small businesses who still cannot afford the lower-priced insurance available in the exchange, we will provide tax credits, the size of which will be based on your need... This exchange will take effect in four years, which will give us time to do it right.
- individuals will be required to carry basic health insurance – just as most states require you to carry auto insurance.
- Likewise, businesses will be required to either offer their workers health care, or chip in to help cover the cost of their workers. There will be a hardship waiver for those individuals who still cannot afford coverage, and 95% of all small businesses, because of their size and narrow profit margin, would be exempt from these requirements.
Obama just gave props to McCain and McCain is smiling like crazy and everyone gave him a standing ovation - it's a total lovefest in there!
"Some of people's concerns have grown out of bogus claims spread by those whose only agenda is to kill reform at any cost. The best example is the claim, made not just by radio and cable talk show hosts, but prominent politicians, that we plan to set up panels of bureaucrats with the power to kill off senior citizens. Such a charge would be laughable if it weren't so cynical and irresponsible. It is a lie, plain and simple."
I've never heard such disrespect from the floor during a President's speech. I have my theories. You?
Great analogy likening private insurers + public options to private/public college system.
What is the paper the people in the back row are holding up?
"I will not back down on the basic principle that if Americans can't find affordable coverage, we will provide you with a choice. And I will make sure that no government bureaucrat or insurance company bureaucrat gets between you and the care that you need."
This one's for my mom: "I will not sign a plan that adds one dime to our deficits, now or in the future. Period. ...Reducing the waste and inefficiency in Medicare and Medicaid will pay for most of this plan. Much of the rest would be paid for with revenues from the very same drug and insurance companies that stand to benefit from tens of millions of new customers."
MAJOR DISS! "Part of the reason I faced a trillion dollar deficit when I walked in the door of the White House is because too many initiatives over the last decade were not paid for – from the Iraq War to tax breaks for the wealthy." True that, Obama, let's overturn those crap decisions while we're at this!
Seniors: "Not a dollar of the Medicare trust fund will go to pay for this plan."
Creating a panel of experts to identify waste. Love it!
Bipartisan leap! Re-assessing medical malpractice laws, a big Republican push.
"Add it all up, and the plan I'm proposing will cost around $900 billion over ten years – less than we have spent on the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, and less than the tax cuts for the wealthiest few Americans that Congress passed at the beginning of the previous administration."
"I will not waste time with those who have made the calculation that it's better politics to kill this plan than improve it. I will not stand by while the special interests use the same old tactics to keep things exactly the way they are. If you misrepresent what's in the plan, we will call you out. And I will not accept the status quo as a solution. Not this time. Not now." Don't mess with the O!
WHOA - powerhouse closer: letter to Obama from Ted Kennedy, requested to be delivered upon his death, calling health care "that great unfinished business of our society... it concerns more than material things.... What we face is above all a moral issue; at stake are not just the details of policy, but fundamental principles of social justice and the character of our country."
Obama is saying that caring for others is not partisan. I disagree based on evidence, but it's big of him to say so.
"When facts and reason are thrown overboard and only timidity passes for wisdom, and we can no longer even engage in a civil conversation with each other over the things that truly matter – that at that point we don't merely lose our capacity to solve big challenges. We lose something essential about ourselves."
Yep, Obama's a bigger man than I am. Still working on a bipartisan solution. Still believing that most of us care about others who are sick or in need. This is one of those rare times when I hope I'm wrong.
Complete transcript.
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Flaunt It If You've Got It
Labels:
michelle obama,
women

Maj props to Latoya Peterson for her hilarious open letters re Diva Michelle wearing shorts. REAL NEWS PEOPLE!!
Dear Americans who actually voted in these polls/tuned into specifically watch shorts commentary:
You better not be the same mofos forwarding around emails about Muslim invasions forcing everyone to cover up and wear burkinis. Check yourself: You are asking if it is appropriate for a woman to wear shorts. She's a grown ass woman! She covered her arms, what more do you want? I am sick of this madness. Don't let me see you in the street, because I'm smacking people on principle.
-Latoya
Double props because she mentions Cary Fukunaga's brilliant movie Sin Nombre. Netflix queue that shiz.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Obama in Ghana
Labels:
africa,
anderson cooper,
barack obama,
cnn,
ghana,
michelle obama,
slavery

Watching the coverage of the Obamas in Ghana is absolutely amazing. Make sure you take a minute to look at photos or video:
Pics & article at HuffPo
CNN Video
Wow - Obama's speech to the people, he and Michelle visiting an old slave trading post (Michelle's ancestors were slaves) -- first time since the election that Obama as an African-American president has really resonated. I'm vowing to visit Cape Coast someday.
The size and the energy of the crowds is unbelievable. What foreign president has ever inspired such enthusiasm?
Aww, Malia and Sasha AND Mrs. Robinson are there too!
Kudos to CNN for putting particularly gorgeous reporters on the story, making it that much more watchable: Anderson Cooper, Suzanne Malveau, more. What? I'm just saying.
Monday, May 18, 2009
FLOTUS in NYC Today!!!
Labels:
fashion,
michelle obama
Hey Michelle! I'm sure you forgot to call/text me bc you're so super busy but great news -- I'm free today! Wanna do happy hour or do you still need a plus one to the gala? Either way, just let me know!!! BTW love your dress!
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Extreme Political Fashion Faux Pas Exposed!
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fashion,
michelle obama
I could not believe my eyes when I saw the clips from this year's White House Press Correspondents' Dinner. Is this woman kidding me?!

The hair was bad enough (and I was watching it from the South), but wait until you see the dress:

Full length see through skintight lace?! Over 40?? Achhhh puke get away from His Royal Pristineness you Monica wannabe!
Who is this lady and what was she thinking? She is dressed for a night in Vegas, not a night being photographed and televised sitting next to the POTUS. Even Donatella Versace looked more conservative.

(BTW - Welcome to the blogosphere DV! Link to Meet the Pressler!! Kthxbye!)
Official Offer: If you ever have audience with the president, I will review your ensemble - clothing, accessories, even hair - at absolutely no charge. I am not kidding. This offer goes to all politicians, foreign heads of state, presidential honorees, hell, even journalists.
***Counting to ten.***
Now let's all recalibrate with a photo of the Divine Mrs. O.

Ah, that's better. Sexy yet classy. B looks like he loves her so much, it's just all too adorable!
Lots more WHCD fashion photos here. Holy A-list.

The hair was bad enough (and I was watching it from the South), but wait until you see the dress:

Full length see through skintight lace?! Over 40?? Achhhh puke get away from His Royal Pristineness you Monica wannabe!
Who is this lady and what was she thinking? She is dressed for a night in Vegas, not a night being photographed and televised sitting next to the POTUS. Even Donatella Versace looked more conservative.

(BTW - Welcome to the blogosphere DV! Link to Meet the Pressler!! Kthxbye!)
Official Offer: If you ever have audience with the president, I will review your ensemble - clothing, accessories, even hair - at absolutely no charge. I am not kidding. This offer goes to all politicians, foreign heads of state, presidential honorees, hell, even journalists.
***Counting to ten.***
Now let's all recalibrate with a photo of the Divine Mrs. O.

Ah, that's better. Sexy yet classy. B looks like he loves her so much, it's just all too adorable!
Lots more WHCD fashion photos here. Holy A-list.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Prime Time President
Labels:
barack obama,
children,
fashion,
iraq,
michelle obama,
nancy pelosi,
svu

Thoughts during Obama's first presidential address...
And they're still clapping. Hells yeah.
Very positive start - "We will rebuild, we will recover."
Visit www.recovery.gov to find out where your money's going.
Nancy Pelosi looks fablous in olive green.
Call to personal responsibility.
"Because nobody messes with Joe." Lolz - how many quotes will that get over the next 4 (8) years?
Urgent need to restore credit -- 1) starting loan fund. 2) starting home fund to help responsible families.
Increased bailout accountability for banks. "This time bank CEOs won't be able to use taxpayer money to pad their paychecks, buy fancy drapes, or run off in a private jet. Those days are over."
Obama says government's job is to "solve the problem" - not play politics.
"It's not about helping banks, it's about helping people."
Michelle is killin' it in a royal purple dress. She's very fond of sleeveless regardless of season. I'm down.
Need to cut healthcare costs, dependence on oil, debt for next generation.
Obama summarizes bold forward steps that happened during tough times in our history.
A lot of "It begins with..." I like this continued reference to a beginning when everyone's feeling like things are ending, crashing, foreclosing.
Energy: "It is time for America to lead again."
Health insurance for children whose parents work full time! Funds to cure cancer!
I think this Senator they just showed is pretending to read his booklet so he can nap.
Schools need reform, not just resources. Investment in programs that are working, commitment to charter schools. Asking every American to commit to at least one year of post-HS training. Goal of having highest proportion of college grads in the world by 2020. Tuition $$ for those who volunteer in their communities.
Necessity for parental involvement in child development. "I speak to you not just as a President, but as a father." "Responsibility for education begins at home."
Bringing down our deficit. Big cheers for "With the deficit we inherited..."
Eliminating no-bid contracts in Iraq. (This got loud cheers and a whoop from yours truly. Watch out Cheney.)
Restoring fairness to tax code by eliminating tax breaks to those who ship jobs oversees and ending tax breaks for top 2% of Americans.
Campaign promise repeated! "If your family makes less than 250K a year, you will not see your taxes raise a dime."
Pledge to no longer hide the price of the Iraq War. Now reviewing options for ending Iraq War and promise to soon reveal plan as well as have allied plan for Middle East. Raising pay for our troops and expanding benefits.
Wait a second. This speech is now cutting into Law & Order: SVU. Not cool, Barack. Oh wait -- now he's talking about Guantanamo! Good compromise!
Honoring timely heroes in attendance - a CEO who distributed his bonus to all employees, a Kansas town that's rebuilding after a tornado, an 8th grader that wrote Obama to help fix her school (this one gave me chills), a NYC blogger who gives of her time to help her friends know what's going on in news and politics... what?!
And IT'S OVER! Good job Barack! Nancy you were very attentive! Joe, give 'em hell. Michelle, keep stylin'. America: do it. I'm out.
Read entire transcript. Although of course, now you don't need to. You're welcome.
*Quotes not necessarily exact. What do I look like, a court stenographer?
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Open Message to the Obamas
Labels:
barack obama,
michelle obama
Hi guys,
I know you're probably super busy settling into the White House and fixing the country and whatnot, but can you let me know what time we're doing brunch on Saturday? I'm only going to be in DC for a day and a half and want to make sure we can get together. Call/text me.
Kthxbye!
I know you're probably super busy settling into the White House and fixing the country and whatnot, but can you let me know what time we're doing brunch on Saturday? I'm only going to be in DC for a day and a half and want to make sure we can get together. Call/text me.
Kthxbye!
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Yet Another Obama - Pressler Parallel
Labels:
michelle obama
My friends and I have a shameful common secret - we can't remember which Obama kid is which. Is Sasha the older one? Or is it Malia?? But as we realized yesterday, the pneumonic solution was right in front of me all along!
My younger sister is Natasha. "Malia" is kinda like "Ciara", and "Sasha" rhymes with "Natasha." Sooo...
Malia's younger sister is Sasha!
Feel free to use that.

My younger sister is Natasha. "Malia" is kinda like "Ciara", and "Sasha" rhymes with "Natasha." Sooo...
Malia's younger sister is Sasha!
Feel free to use that.

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